Mr. No Short-Term Memory
By Amethyst Wonder I was going to write about the phenomenon of Mr. Cut & Paste. You know the guy: he sends you a message that is clearly a form letter he sends out to everyone he has any potential...
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By Amethyst Wonder Several months ago, a FetLife friend commented on a photo that I found intriguing. It was of a young man who was not only attractive, but seemed intelligent and thoughtful. I took...
View ArticleIt’s Not All Sexy on the Internet
By Sexquire If you’re reading this, chances are you’re familiar with the Internet, online news sites and blogs. Chances are also high that you have used the Internet to find or learn about sex in some way
View ArticleMr. Too Familiar
By Amethyst Wonder You know what I’m really starting to hate? People sending me messages written as though they know me. This is the verbatim text of two actual messages I received on FetLife...
View ArticleMy Bad. Sorta.
By Amethyst Wonder Way, way, back in the day, when it first occurred to me to look for kinky partners on the internet, before I'd ever had casual partners, before my needs had evolved into their...
View ArticleMr. Forget-Me-Not
By Amethyst Wonder This past month, I've gotten at least three messages from people who I've already talked to/met/gone out with and, for whatever reason, dismissed as potential partners. Actually,...
View ArticleMr. Unintentional Irony
By Amethyst Wonder It may shock you to learn that I, who fancy myself a writer, appreciate words. Words have meanings, and using the right word helps us to communicate effectively. I’m also a huge...
View ArticleSocial Networking and Kink – Part 2
By Lucy Lemonade The art of conversation has gotten lost in the new age of email and instant messages. Picking up on my last article regarding social networking and kink, I’m going to discuss the ins...
View ArticleWhat Could Possibly Go Wrong?
If you’re the type of person who ever thinks about starting your own business, or being a freelancer, or turning your passion or hobby or interest into your career, chances are fairly high that you’re...
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